I completely understand the emotions that surround death. I've been there. After my father passed, I felt so guilty. I wondered if he really knew how much I loved him. I had been there earlier, but I wasn't there when he actually "died" and I felt so bad. There was a memorial service for him and I honestly didn't think that I would make it through. I completely believed in "death" for most of my life.
Yet....I always felt that I was missing a big "piece of the puzzle" and I began to look for the truth about how the Universe works. I've listened to psychics, brain experts, quantum physicists, spiritual leaders and more. Recently, I began listening to a number of channeled messages which include Archangel Michael, Archangel Gabriel, Jesus and the Pleiadians. Humans and aliens alike will tell you that death does not exist. Quantum physics tells us that everything in the Universe is energy and energy can never "die", it can only change form.
Now I'm not saying that you shouldn't miss your loved ones and honor them. I still miss my dad and now my mom very much. Mourning is a process that we need to go through and there is nothing wrong with that.
Having said that, devastation over someone's death is only hurting you. You could actually make yourself sick and you still have a full life ahead of you. Do you know what the emotions of guilt and grief can do to you? Everything is about vibration and those are extremely low vibrations.
This seems to be happening quite often lately. I try to explain something and human words can't really describe it accurately. Having said that, this is as close as I can get. Again, the first fact is that everything is energy and energy cannot be destroyed. It can only take different forms. Read my page on the basics of quantum physics, if you aren't aware of that.
Theoretical physicists now believe that there are infinite numbers of universes with different variations of people, and situations taking place, simultaneously.
We have been taught that when the human body dies, that's it. Death is the end. But your body is only a vessel or a costume being used by your soul or your consciousness, here on this planet. Your body is NOT the real you. Your soul is the real you.
Here, on this planet, we have spent much of our time in a 3rd dimensional state of being. There's density, which makes matter appear solid. We have an array of emotions such as fear, worry, anger and doubt, which keeps us in a low vibrational state.
"Death" takes your soul or your consciousness to a higher dimension, a higher state of vibration. You leave the fear, worry, anger and doubt behind. Contrary to popular belief, dimensions are not up, they are all happening simultaneously. When they say higher dimension, it means a much higher frequency and vibration. The point is that your loved ones are still here and they can see you.
You have to ask yourself if you want them to see you miserable over their passing?
Non-physical consciousness is here with you all the time. ~ Abraham-Hicks ~
Now they don't watch you every moment of everyday. I hate to disappoint you, but they really have better things to do now. They do love you, because love is now their total state of "being". They absolutely care about the major events in your life, like a new child, grandchild, change in career or a new house. They know what's going on, but you can rest easy that they don't care if you're sitting on the toilet or weeding your garden.
They are now light beings again, which is our original, natural form. Our souls or our spirits are light and love.
I just heard this the other day and found it very interesting. I was listening to someone channel a higher dimensional being. They said that if everyone would just stop being afraid of death, it would be seamless. There is no gap between your last breath and returning to your light body. You might look back at your human body or "your costume" for a moment, but if you have no fear, you will just go about your business. You won't have a second thought.
When my mom got sick, I promised her that no matter what, she would stay in her house. She had cancer that spread and at the age of 93, she wasn't going to get better. I don't think that she even wanted to get better, because my dad died 20 years earlier and she was tired of being alone. I had a job at the time, so I was taking care of her, my own family and working. It was a bit hectic.
One night, I fell asleep on the couch. At around 3 a.m. a voice said. "Hi! Barb". It was like someone was right next to me, yet my husband was sound asleep in the bedroom. About a week later, it happened again around the same time. I know it was my dad, because he is the only man who has ever called me Barb, instead of Barbara. I believe that he was just letting me know that he was ready for mom to cross over.
Another time someone put their hand on my shoulder and it was not my imagination.
The whole situation with my mom, was quite different than with my dad. This sounds cruel, but some of the stuff was pretty funny. About a week before she passed, she kept telling me about a little boy playing with her oxygen and how she yelled at him a number of times. According to the psychic, James Van Praagh, that little boy was a "joy guide" sent to keep her company. I loved my mom very much, but only she would get pissed off at a "joy guide".
She would also be moaning and groaning in obvious pain, then suddenly she would open her eyes, smile and say hello to someone. Mostly, it was her 4 brothers and sisters, until she got to Dave. By this time, my sister was there and she asked who Dave was. I didn't know. We don't have any relatives named Dave. Of course that led to possibilities of the mailman, the UPS guy, and all kinds of crazy stuff. To this day, we still haven't figured out who Dave is.
The point is that I absolutely KNOW that death does not exist. If you still have doubts, please look into it further. I promise you that it is not the end.
You might like my page on reality.
You might want to read my page about Jesus and the truth about the resurrection.
They call Robert Lanza, one of the most respected scientists in the world. He wrote a book called Biocentrism: How Life and Consciousness are the Keys to Understanding the True Nature of the Universe. They say that it will shatter the ideas of life—time and space, and even death.