Happiness is not something that you will ever find on the outside. It's an inside job. It has nothing to do with people, possessions and money. In fact, all of those things are a big part of the problem. It all comes from the misguided beliefs that society has taught us.
All of your beliefs come from the beliefs of society, which also includes your parents. One example is the belief that we should grow up, get married and have kids. Why? Why is that something that you should do in order to be happy?
Speaking of marriage, it reminds me of something that I heard recently, through a channeler. The higher dimensional being said that having one partner for 20, 30, 40 years and working at the same job for 20 or 30 years is actually unhealthy. I asked my guidance and I get that it's complete TRUTH. This is what I mean. Forget what everyone believes you should do. Do what makes YOU happy.
Another thing that higher dimensional beings say, is that this is all just a game and we have to learn how to play it.
Happiness has absolutely nothing to do with possessions or the conditions outside of you. No matter how much money you have, how wonderful your partner is or how beautiful your home is, you're never going to be completely satisfied. You will always want more and you will always want change. Happiness is not something that you go out and get. It's a state of being. It's the ability to just enjoy the journey of life.
Someone asked Neale Donald Walsch, how we can measure our spiritual growth. His answer was, "By noticing how little it takes to make you happy."
Years ago, I listened to a number of videos by Marisa Peer. She's considered the #1 hypnotherapist in the UK. She works with many successful people who have tons of money. They have the fame, the nice cars and the big houses, yet many of them are miserable. They seem to have everything, yet they still come to her for help. According to her, the biggest thing that holds people back is thinking that there is something wrong with them.
Remember that life is a reflection of the vibrations that you are sending out. They are being mirrored back to you.
As we all learn about the Law of Attraction, you will hear many statements about BEING. Happy is something that you have to choose to BE. When you choose to BE happy and DO what brings you joy, then things will begin to change. Things will begin to flow without effort.
I guarantee that if you feel better on the inside, then things will begin to look different on the outside. Life begins to go much more smoothly.
This is a choice that only you can make. It's not selfish.
What do you love? Do you love nature? Do you love art or music? What brings you joy? It's funny but many people can't answer that question. We've spent so much time working, cleaning, fixing and taking care of others that we don't even know what makes us happy anymore. We don't even know how to have fun anymore. This is where self love comes in. You and only you are responsible for your happiness. This is why it's an inside job.
The best place to begin, is to show gratitude for what you do have. Put your attention there. Everything is energy. Direct your energy towards things that you love, rather than your problems and your old stories. If you do nothing else wake up and simply say, "Today, I choose happiness!" and mean it. This is how to direct your energy and set your intention for the day.
This is the chart of emotions from the lowest vibration to the highest. It shows you how fear, grief and despair hold us down. We all need to get up to hopefulness, contentment and trust. That's when the vibrational matches will begin to kick in. If you can't be joyous, be content and appreciate what you do have.
There is absolutely no reason for us to be holding on to anything negative. We must learn to let go. Remember we are not victims. We created everything with our own limited thinking and beliefs. If your mind keeps bringing up negativity, just tell it to STOP. Say "Thanks for your input". Then go for a better thought. There is something good in everything. It's your choice on how you perceive it.
Just relax and have some fun.
If you have questioned religion and you believe in channeling, you may want to read my page on Jesus. He says that he is coming through, to tell us the truth. This is what he tried to tell us years ago.
Self love is extremely important.
Do you believe that you know what reality is?