Are you having trouble manifesting your desires?

Do you realize that you're manifesting something in every single moment? You have been, since the day that you were born. 

A while back, I heard a very detailed explanation of the Law of Attraction. I suddenly had a huge "ah-ha moment". After many years of studying this, I realized that it's not just your thoughts, emotions and beliefs, but also your agreements, that effect everything.

Many people don't believe in "soul contracts" or agreements. Yet I've heard it multiple times. Our soul agreed to experience certain things in this lifetime in order to gain wisdom. It may have agreed to accomplish one thing before we could move on to the next. It agreed to awaken at a certain time. It also agreed to experience "collective stories", which is much of what we're doing now, with the virus. 


Here's an example of a "soul contract" agreement. Many years ago I decided that I wanted to be a healer. I took a Reiki course and became a Reiki Master. To make a long story short, nothing really worked out. Of course I blamed myself, I wondered what I did "wrong" and I was extremely disappointed.

Now fast forward to when I learned to ASK my own guidance. One day I was asking questions and one of them was, "Am I supposed to be a healer?" No. This explains why Reiki never worked out. It was the "human me" who made that decision. It was not part of my agreement. I could have chosen to do it anyway, because I do have free will, but it may have always been a challenge.

Your higher self KNOWS what you agreed to do. You and your higher self are not separate. It's constantly guiding you, if you pay attention. This is why you must be aligned. When you know all of this, manifesting becomes so much easier.

How many times have you heard, "Let go of the control"? We were never taught to just be happy, be patient and allow things to fall into place. We were never taught to trust those "gut feelings" and intuition. No one ever taught us that we had guidance.

I've also heard this numerous times lately. Your "human" mind cannot possibly imagine all of the infinite possibilities available to you. Everything that we see and know is history. It has already been created. We all need to stop expecting things to manifest in a certain way or we will only re-create the same history over and over again.

 "Why would you assume that where you are now is not perfectly where you need to be?"  ~Bashar ~ 

You and your higher self must be a team that works together. The Universe doesn't make things go wrong to punish you. It's always trying to SHOW you something. 

An Example of Alignment

This was a huge ah-ha moment for me. It was also before I learned to completely trust my guidance.

Our son decided to open his own business, which I thought was a great idea. The problem was that he quit his job first. He had a truck that he loved and now there was no money coming in. As parents often do, because we love him, we offered to make his truck payment of almost $600 a month, until he got the business going. This isn't the first time that we've "bailed him out", but it was the first time that I noticed how it felt. It didn't FEEL right at all.

A few months later, that "good deed" was turning into chaos. Everything suddenly began to go "wrong". I don't think that I actually said it, but this is the point where we often say "What did I do to deserve this?" It just didn't make any sense.

So, being a logical "human", I decided that it was up to me to FIX things and go back to work for a while. Yet, that idea felt really terrible.

Then I remembered that "Nothing ever needs to be FIXED. Nothing is broken". About that same time I also heard:

"I am not going to take responsibility for where other people are.... no matter who they are... no matter how related they think that they are to me." 

The "light bulb" went on. I was being SHOWN. I wasn't allowing him to have his own experience . I knew that it didn't FEEL right, but I ignored it.

I completely focused on paying attention to my thoughts and feeling better. About 3 weeks later, the Universe helped us out and something totally unexpected happened. Someone suddenly showed up and offered our son thousands more for his truck than he owed. It was an offer that he couldn't refuse. 


It wasn't until very recently, that I realized this "lesson" has been an ongoing thing. Read my What's New page, for my latest realization.

Manifest By Feeling Better

If you notice, in the story above, I didn't actually manifest physical money. I manifested the freedom from the truck payment. This is why you should never EXPECT things to happen in a certain way. 

You simply have to feel better.  Where do you feel from?  It's not your head. You have to live from the heart. I went against that in the story above. It didn't feel right from the very beginning, but I was afraid that our son would get upset. Then, when fear set in, I thought that I had to FIX everything.

"You don't get what you need. You don't get what you want. You get what you ARE."


You should also try to wrap your head around reality.

Get out of those "soul contracts" and agreements by KNOWING who you really are.

Do you do things because they're logical? Logic is fear.