No More Self-Help

If you've been reading and listening to self-help material for years, then this page may be for you. 

I'm not saying that self help material isn't needed, especially in the beginning, but many of us are way past all of that. If you want to fully awaken, then that's not what you need.

I was just making a change on my Paul Selig page, where I wrote a quote from his guides that said:

"You may take a million classes, read a million more texts, but without alignment which is not done as the small self, you will be chasing your tail."

"However, until your alignment is present, you are still playing the game of self-help."

As I read the quote again, it hit me. Many of us have been clearing blocks for years. We know that everything is energy. We know how the Law of Attraction works. We don't need anymore self-help. We ARE "chasing our tails".

How You Are Being Guided

Not that it's important, but this whole thing came from a strong feeling to delete a specific page from this site. As usual, I asked my guidance if this is what I'm supposed to do and the answer was "Yes".

At the time, it didn't make any sense, but I've learned to trust. Somehow, some way it will always make perfect sense later on.

For some strange reason I also asked if I needed to make any other changes. As soon as I asked, I knew that I shouldn't have. In the end, 6 pages of hard work were gone.

At first, I really wanted to fight it, but I've come to the conclusion that my Higher Self has totally taken over this website. My control is gone so I've learned to just go with the flow.

I'm sure that you know how one thing can lead to another. Well, it was a round-about way, but I believe that my guidance wanted me to end up on the Paul Selig page, reading that quote again. 

Self-Help Is Old News

This is when it hit me. Anyone who has been studying this for any length of time, doesn't need anymore self-help.

I've probably wasted thousands of dollars on self-help material. I've spent hour after hour listening to videos and reading books, but it's just more INFORMATION. I'm sure that many of you have been doing the same thing, yet there are still so many questions. 

Now I understand why my guidance was telling me to delete those pages. They weren't necessary anymore. They were just more information. This isn't supposed to be hard, so I'm being guided to make it simple.

A Bit of Clarity

This is what many don't understand. Ascension is preparing or changing the body. It's not going to raise your vibration or frequency. These downloads coming in, are preparing the body to HOLD the higher vibrations and higher frequencies. This is why it's so gradual or we couldn't handle it.

Everyone on the planet is receiving these downloads, but 70% of the Earth's population is still asleep. Ascension does not mean full awakening or enlightenment. 

I've also learned that you can be the happiest, most loving person on the planet, but that doesn't mean that you exist in a 5th dimensional state of being. Many THINK that they're in a 5D state, but they're not. It's an ego thing. I only got there after reading Paul Selig's books.

This is why I'm mentioned a quote from Archangel Metatron many times. He said:

"You must commit to your connection with the Divine and most of you are not doing that. Only a few are catching tiny glimpses of 5D" 

It took me quite a while to figure it out and self-help is NOT going to get you there.


In order to fully awaken, you must learn to pay attention to your own guidance, which is your Higher/Divine Self. Full awakening is the merging of the "human self" and the Higher Self.  You're not going to merge until you TRUST it.

This is why Metatron said, "You must commit to your connection".

Why Paul Selig's guides say: "The human self alone, will never fully awaken."

Saint-Germain also said, "The human does not become realized." (Realized and full awakening are the same thing.)

The biggest lie that we have ever been told is that we're separate from the Higher Self. This is why you have intuition, gut feelings and just an inner KNOWING. This is how you are constantly being SHOWN.

It's why you need to know who you really are. Don't just believe it, KNOW it. Your soul agreed to your awakening, prior to birth. When you KNOW what you agreed to KNOW, it will all just come to you. 

Even more important. I've heard this numerous times. Contrary to popular belief, full awakening or enlightenment is NOT a "get out of jail free" card. You're still human. You're still going to get sick. You can still get cancer. You will still have pain. You will get angry and frustrated, but you'll handle it differently.

They also said that all of this self-help, shadow work, inner child work, trying to raise your vibration is a total waste of time and energy. Even meditation is a waste, if your doing it to awaken.

There should be no real effort. We're making it way too hard.