Self Love

Self love is probably the most important thing to do when it comes to living a life filled with joy. I'm hearing that everywhere now. It's unfortunate, but I think that most people have many negative beliefs about themselves. They set too many requirements for themselves. 

You are not only the creator of your experiences, but you have also created YOU. Your beliefs about yourself have created who you are.  Unfortunately, most of those "beliefs" don't even belong to you. They came from other people, like your parents, teachers and sometimes your friends. Many beliefs came from comparing yourself to others. Begin to question those beliefs. Do you really believe them? Are they really true?

Lisa Nichols is a great example.  Have you ever listened to her speak?  One of her teachers told her to never, ever speak in public.  She is now one of the greatest speakers on the planet.  In fact, I usually end up in tears after hearing her, because she's such a great storyteller. What if she had listened to that teacher? Thank goodness she had enough self love and determination to prove that teacher wrong.

Appreciate and be grateful for who you are right now. Everything that has happened in your life has happened for a reason. Many experiences were planned before you were even born. You, as your soul, chose certain things in order to gain experience and wisdom. You chose your family. Everything has made you who you are. Many things have probably made you stronger. Someone said, "It's just a BIG FAT STORY".

In a recent Abraham-Hicks video, they were just throwing out what they said were "very potent, powerful statements to consider". Among them were, "I've decided that I am a good person, therefore I'm going to pamper myself as much as possible." "I am not going to take responsibility for where other people are, no matter who they are, no matter how related they think that they are to me."  Contrary to our human beliefs they said, "My marriage vows are going to say, I like you pretty good, let's see how it goes."

Love others, respect others, take care of children, but you are only responsible for how YOU feel.  I will explain why this is so important in just a minute.

Self love is not selfish. 

We have to realize that we came here to discover who we really are on a soul level. We've all done "human" things that we may not be proud of, but as far as the "divine" is concerned, no one cares. I hear it over and over. No one cares. The Universe loves you unconditionally. 

Everyday give yourself permission to love yourself and direct your day to the things that bring you joy.

It Sounds Selfish

I already mentioned that you planned certain things before you were born. You also chose to be here for ascension. 

Simply put, with ascension you are gradually merging with your own soul. Your soul is PURE love. How can you possibly merge if you don't even like yourself? How can you reach that 5th dimensional state of consciousness, if you're beating yourself up all the time?  How can you do that if you're miserable?

Your body will function in the dimension that it vibrates at.

Self love must come first. This will lead you to the highest possible state of BEing or state of consciousness. It will eventually allow you to stay in that high vibration most of the time. Then, you will be able to assist others. That is your "job" now.

Self love will also help with manifesting. Do you realize that when you don't like yourself, you're basically telling the Universe that you don't respect yourself enough to live a life that's abundant. You're vibration is saying that you don't deserve.

Self Love And The Subconscious Mind

We are all made of the same stuff. We have all been told certain things about ourselves that we believed were true. What if the other person was just having a bad day? That doesn't make it true. Just because someone calls you stupid, doesn't mean that you're stupid.

YOU are important.  YOU are enough. No one is better than you.  No one deserves to be on this planet more than you.

Throughout your life, every statement that you believed to be true about yourself is now stored in your subconscious mind. Because you decided that it was true, your subconscious will keep reminding you of it over and over again. Most of it is totally untrue and we need to stop paying attention to it. Get out of your head. Your subconscious LIES all day long. Live from the heart, it will never lie to you.

Do you realize that negative thoughts about yourself can also affect your health?  Do you know that heart disease comes from a closed heart?  I've read about many medical miracles that occurred when people just began a new program of self love. 

God/Source energy IS the frequency of unconditional love. You can never do anything wrong.  That's what unconditional means. God/Source adores you. Begin to love yourself and take care of yourself. Send out the vibration of " I AM WORTHY", because you are.

Only YOU are responsible for YOU.  


If you've had a experience in your life that makes you believe that you're not worthy or not good enough, you may want to read Challenges.  Many things were planned before you were born.

I was listening to a talk by Tom Bilyeu who spoke at Mindvalley's A-Fest.  Even his mom thought that he was going to be a failure and he now runs one of the fastest growing companies in the nation. Watch it here on You Tube.  It was a great talk.

Thank you for visiting my website.  I appreciate all of you.